Having twins is like living in a fishbowl. Someone is always at the edge starring at us.
I know that if I am pushing an overflowing grocery cart, while wearing a screaming thrashing booger faced (because I can't see that he needs his nose wiped) 2 year old who is poking at his twin riding in the top basket throwing random groceries overboard, people are noticing.
The way I choose to react in stressful chaotic public situations with my children has an impact on others because someone is always watching.
In these situations, I choose to just strap on a smile and press on.